Category: Writers Block
I have learned a lesson. Never let the one you love slip away. - You Complete Me by Kelly Price Great song I wanted to share a lyric from this song with all of you! It's interesting how music can help you say the things your heart has been trying to say for months now, but now that you found the right words to express how you feel, the person you love is no longer yours to call your own. This song taught me how rare and precious true love is. And when you have it in your life, treasure it like gold. Because if you don't, then it slips from your hands and is lost forever like sands flowing through the sand glass of time. And whenit is all said and done, all I have left is memories of how things used to be when I was his, and he was mine. I hope you all enjoy this lyric, and have a good night. Your friend poetry in motion
I just drank 24 ounces of coffee.
it's idealistic to say someone else completes you. instead, you should complete yourself. and, while you're working hard at that, perhaps focus on making these things happen in real life, instead of posting such dribble.
Damn Chelsea, maybe she wanted to share something?? That is what these boards are here for right?
Every time I see one of your board posts, it's always going against what the original poster says, and it's always full of negativity.
Since you seem so bright on the subject, do you have someone that completes you? Since you know how to do it so well, what steps did you take to get that special someone in your life? It must be so great since you know how to do it so well.
Can't wait to see what the great and al-mighty Chelsea has to say.
Pretty song. Smile.
that's just it. I don't need someone else in my life to be complete. someone might extend me, but I'm the one who makes myself whole.
that's my point. if a person can't be whole on their own, then what do they have, at the end of the day? nothing, in my opinion.
Wayne, you're a guy. what do you say? is it better for a woman to find someone to complete her, or for her to love self, and let the rest come as it may?
I feel that You, Chelsea, have an urging need to put others down. You feel you're always right, that you're better, or that you can persuade others to think and act as fantastic as you do. She wanted to share the song, what is so wrong about that? I think I make myself complete, others may think differently. So what? Maybe you should write a better song and share it. I think that's a good idea.
Homo Sapiens are primates, and primates are very social, interdependent animals. Not only needing each other, but needing to be needed by each other. Those like Jane Goodall who write about animal abuse in labs, state that some of the worst kind of animal abuse is the solitary confinement inflicted on primates.
Chelsea, in terms of human development, your ideas are extremely modern and have no biological precedent among primates. I am not a bear or a cat or a snake, so I will shamelessly admit that I need The Chick to feel as I do now, and that probably more important, I need to be needed by Her. This is also the case for other humans in my life. Humans are happier creatures when others care enough to count on them, even need them.
To animal lovers, I didn't leave out elephants and dolphins, who are very similar to us in this respect, out of ignorance. Only I mentioned primates because we are primates, and human behavior definitely has its parallels there.
Remember, the supposed Lone Ranger Wild West actually lasted the space of 30 years. 30 years, that is it. Homo sapiens tend to function best, most of the time, in groups, e.g. needing to be needed and needing each other.
All these new words the soft sciences now have about it being wrong is as silly as religion's view on sex, only it's a few thousand years newer.
Given enough time, they will do as the religious have done, and institute things as taboos to say that we need one another, not just in general but specifically.
Well, sense I’ve been invited, I’ll say.
I think it best to be whole, and wanted, not needed.
It is best to enhance, not complete.
I am excited by a woman that is emotionally settled, relaxed, and at peace with herself, that wants me, not needs me.
It is a burden to be needed, because you can’t enjoy the relationship with ought obligation or guilt when you don’t feel as deep as your partner does.
A relationship built on need is a relationship that is devastating when it ends, if it ends.
At that point, you get to hear another pretty song, so I guess it is worth it for music lovers like me. Smile.
It is the human condition for many, and that is why this song is powerful to many, because they relate. I just think it a pretty song.
that's exactly the way I feel, Wayne. I don't wanna be needed, nor do I want anyone to need me. it's nice to feel wanted, at times, but those are too very different things.
Ah and it is really hard to tell the difference between want and need sometimes. See that other topic where Chelsea said sex was a need, and Shepherdwolf claimed it is not one.
Or in the Soviet Union when they claimed humans don't need choices in products, only needed one type for each.
Perhaps we and other primates communicate the term need when it is actually want. Or vice versa. Hard to say.
Does a menstruating cow give strawberry milk?